Steve Peace told ABC News that his wife Lindsay Peace got a tattoo
portrait of their three kids over ten years ago. One of the tattoos
showed a blonde girl in pigtails and a pink dress, but they recently
found out, that the girl's image didn't match the 15-year-old's
identity.
Ace Peace told his parents this past January that he identifies himself as a boy.
"Soon after, when people came up to us asking about the tattoos, we'd
realize one didn't match, and it was just an uncomfortable situation,"
Steve said. "She thought about covering it, but I said, 'Hey, I'll just
change the clothing and give it a haircut!'"
Steve updated the tattoo this past summer, when he changed the girl on his wife's arm into a boy, he said.
"We decided to surprise Ace with it, and when he saw it, he loved it,"
Steve said. "I think it really confirmed for him that his parents were
behind him and that his identity as a trans boy is real."
The tattoo artist added that the photo of the tattoo only took off on
social media after he posted it on his Facebook page last week. He said,
he and his wife hope the tattoo's story encourages other parents of
trans kids to support and accept their children.
"It was tough at first, but we knew we had to get behind him," Steve
said. "For trans kids with no parental support, the risk of suicide
rises, and that was a deciding factor for us. It's a life-or-death
situation."
Steve said, he and his wife educated themselves and researched
transgender issues right after their son came out to them. The father
added, he was overjoyed seeing Ace "become happier and happier" with
every step he took to affirm his identity as a boy.
"Now, we have quite a few people coming up to us or calling us telling
us they had negative feelings about trans people at first and then
saying, 'Holy Cow! I was wrong all this time!" Steve said. "We're happy
that the tattoo has taken off and helped opened some people's eyes and
educated them to the issues trans people and kids face.
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